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These girls or guys in similar roles I have no sympathy for. This is the hurtful manipulation. But using a little intuition and sexual charm to heighten the sexual tension in a potential mate — that is the magic. Were you always like that?
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And each girl is a little different. Some like it brutally hard, others just like it a little rough. This is learned as I pay attention to how she responds. Also, I am not trying to fit every girl into my box — I simply know what most girls like, and the ones I like I offer the opportunity to explore with.
If it goes beyond that, great, if not, ok. I enjoy the interaction, but I am outcome independent with each individual interaction. At some point, when you have fully developed your confidence, you are just enough.
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